In many ways it's a blessing that I'm too poor to go to Aiken or Ocala and keep competing. I doubt that I am unique in that I push myself and my horses pretty hard toward our goals, and Neil is so easy to over-fit that it's often a struggle not to ride him too much. Couple this with how much fun we are having by the end of the season, and it's even harder not to ride him too much.
This year, for the first time, I'm giving my horse the entire winter off. To be a horse. Last winter, when Neil got January off, he felt like a different horse when I got back on him-- in a good way. He's six years old. He isn't going the Olympics next year (I know, surprise everyone, it turns out you have to have Canadian citizenship to ride for team Canada). Last winter circumstances kept him cooped up inside more than he or I could help, and it took a serious toll on our collective psyche. So this year, he's going to live in a field and learn to pull my friends around on skis (hope they have health insurance). But the tough thing is, that's not very many weeks away, and I have to start letting my horse down on his workload soon.
I thought that was going to suck, but I got off him yesterday and told Jeremy that it was one of the best rides I had had in a long time. The ride being, showing up to the barn just before dark, warming up my horse on the flat, and putting him away. Because I have no plans to drill my dressage skills through the winter or really to do anything except hack for the rest of the year, I rode him connected and relaxed on the flat. The last few weeks of Neil finding his new balance WITH MY LEG ON and SITTING UP (sorry, these words are just always in all-caps in my brain) have helped him to travel so much more forward and to feel so much better in his back. Now that I can combine this with riding relaxed, I'm able to help Neil more and also to enjoy my rides (surprise, ding ding ding).
That doesn't mean I'm not going to push myself through the end of fall into this winter. When I was sick for so long this summer, I lost all of the cardio from training for that marathon that I didn't end up making it to, and a lot of my overall strength. I'm stoked to take some more time for myself to hit up the hills on my feet and on my bike, and also to take advantage of the zillion free yoga classes at Middlebury to re-focus and re-center and get stronger. Some of my absolute favorite things to do this time of year are to watch YouTube videos of awesome riders and their technique, and also just great videos of eventing that make me cry tears of joy (like this one).
That also doesn't mean I'm not going to have a damn good time with my horse. For example, last weekend being fall break at Middlebury College and Anna and clearly not having enough homework to do, we rode Neil and Remington into the Trail Around Middlebury (TAM) and proceeded through town to do what we've been desperate to do since we took our respective tours of the campus before we matriculated; that is, gallop around on Battel Beach. Pretty much the greatest moment of my college experience was jumping Neil over a couple of adirondack chairs right in the center of campus, and posing with my beloved BiHall in the background.
Good times had by all.
Finally, I was stoked to see a photo of Teddy (formerly our pal Tiz) jumping all the things at Arbrook Farm's October jumping clinic; he is looking so great with Alyssa and Kerry keeps reporting great things from him. Here's Sophie's photo:
That's a wrap! Fall season is over, fun things done with horses, fun things yet to come with horses, life is pretty great. Oh! And in case you missed it, Neil is now sporting the Team Canada logo on his butt. Just in case (faint hope) I can someday convince Clayton Fredericks that you don't really have to be a Canadian to ride for Canada. Sigh.
Cheers!
Marina and Neil

